One belief that I hold:
Don’t Look Back, Look Forward
I believe in looking forward to a new day and better future, not dwelling on the past and letting it effect who I am. I try not to stress over something that may have happened because there is no possible way to change it. The only thing to do is leave it all behind and have an open and optimistic view on the future. This is how I was able to get over a tragic event that occurred in my life.
My mother passed away due to brain cancer when I was four. Prior to her death my parents had divorced and I was unable to get to know her since I only visited on the weekends. I got adjusted to my stepmother and being so young, it was easy to view her as a mother figure. I never really thought about my own mother because I had never gotten the time to get attached. Then, while in my high school years, it finally hit me. My one and only mother had passed away; I never got to know her, and I barely had any lasting memories of her. Feelings of grief and remorse set in and totally changed who I was. My entire mindset changed, I became antisocial and stopped my usual activities like soccer and baseball. I truly felt depressed because I was unaware about just how much she cared for me.
My mom, knowing that her time was coming, set up a mutual fund for my sister and me. Its purpose was to cover the costs of our college education. I realized that she gave me everything she possibly could and the fact that I could never get to know her saddened me. Then, realizing that thinking about the past was ruining me, I decided that it was no use dwelling on it. The only thing I could do is say “it is what it is” and move on. After this I was back to my old self, being more socially active and doing more with my life than sitting around and thinking about something that had happened years ago. I was back to my old optimistic self.
Holding this belief has been one of the best things I have ever done. It has gotten me through many more situations where I started to get concerned about a decision I previously made or an event in my life that troubled me. I will always hold true to this belief and it will help me with whatever obstacles life throws in my way. I am looking forward.